Thursday, July 31, 2008

Perfect and Standard Man

Appearance match. He certainly does not require the handsome and cool, but it seems not a public scandal, can not you a beautiful arch, looking around a short fat black bar.

Carefully and taste. He can not remember your brother-in-law birthday, but your birthday and wedding anniversary must keep in mind that these two dates in the life of the marriage is very important. Be able to go out like a romantic, but also the best gift is received.

Bad habits.Smoke could be drawn that can drink wine, but not too much. You do not want to go back every day to face a drunken drunkard, when the mouth is not distributed with a thick smell of smoke people, right?

Strong social skills. Is not to say that we must have hit everyone in their way active laugh, see a hand grip on the kind of situation, he does not need to have a certain social aspects of the hard-line tactics, but not timid. Together out of business, he stood only know that giggle, but could not find the topic and talk to your colleagues, everything you need to keep up appearances by the men, you will face no light.

male spirit. Here said that the male spirit, is not to say that big man, and that in the typical home is not home, hand clothing to food to the mouth opening undesirable men. Big man is the spirit you have been bullied on the outside, he can come forward and not hesitate to stand up for you, you are truly protected. This alone, the men should be entrusted to consider you for life.

there is a sense of responsibility. Men must have a sense of responsibility that he should have the courage to do themselves, whether official or private affair. A kind of emergency Jiuwang others pushed the men not only despicable but also shameful.

there is a calm heart. The world has been accustomed to in order to cause a person to measure the success of a person's value. In fact, a person's value lies in his presence is important to others. Even if that person can not be achieved in their careers, like everyone else's success story, but his life of ordinary people like him represent a very important value. If a man can not be a peace of mind to look at their own gains and losses, the cynical all day long, strange social injustice, resentment injustice of life, then you and him will also affect your state of mind, easy to extreme, to your great psychological Pressure, you do not lead to a happy life.

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Perfect and Standard Man 1

To have a stable income. Love is very important, but should have built on the basis of bread. Having bulging wallets money can have a life of security. A poor husband and wife sorrow, a man if cannot take out money for the child's formula, and if you follow him, only to endure hardship of the total.

The most important thing a man should be strong and resolute and steadfast.Those who failed once on the blame on others, in the doldrums, unable to stand up again the fall of a man determined not to be. Men to give women a sense of security, if you find a husband can not take care of you, but also often in tears in front of you own, unfortunately, you have to assume he is actually able to save the suffering is the very failure.

Loyalty. Needless to say on this point, I believe all women are not willing to have an affaired husband.

Tolerance. You will not be able to find the men, even if he love you. However, a little bit on the small jealous, whether you are a boss and as a result of the public out of business, or in the near future for many years with the private gathering of friends, your home kicked up a row and you ignored the man, is in fact Selfish. Of course, he would say it is because he was jealous love you, but do not forget that a person should love her freedom, and sisters do not have been a man with a variety of methods to disguise your stay at home so can only be washing and cooking housewife. Is not to say that a housewife is not good, but for now this society women, have their own social circle, to independence, self-improvement, not for their own freedom do not find the men.

Health. Does not require that men are how tall, but must healthy body. Something wrong with the body of a woman, can hardly be regarded as fragile, if a man like that especially the sick throughout the day, as you say, then what?

Self-confidence. Distributed all over the taste of self-confidence of men, women can rest assured that rely on.

Sunday, July 6, 2008

Boys and Girls relationship

Women from puberty to the beginning of a romantic fantasy about: the beach under the stars, candlelight, the French steak, and then there are the ideal point of bringing a bright moon night, the men mouth of a bay window in her roses, guitar. Wait a minute, do you think the United States did well, others are willing to have it.

Men and women are different, a popular saying even a child will know, but actually used, can be a good pondering. The same question, men and women concerned about different aspects may come to opposite conclusions. In the course of dating, men and women of different psychological experience, dating from the beginning, gradually to determine the relationship, the show also different. Like men do not want to know the date whispered in his mind what it?

You fall in love at first sight

The development of science and technology, we should have more time to love, the fact is that urban men and women who not only need to work a longer period of time, place of residence and the work of the distance between the more and more distant. Investigations have even thought that, for every day they want, any time to act but 22.3 minutes. One woman needed 21.2 minutes to determine what to wear; men need to shave the hair finishing 18.7 minutes. The real free time was 1.1 minutes and 3.6 minutes. Of course, some say more than an exaggeration, you have to admit that dating is a very time-consuming.

In order to improve the hit rate of 57% of the men through a friend introduced to the other half, 31 percent in a bar or party encounter, and 12% of the respondents to choose partners about the work. Once a man close to the hope that the women, most of them will take the initiative to invite the other party. This step is not difficult to achieve, as long as not too timid or self-esteem should be in a relaxed state of mind can be in reality.

72% of men would be the first date set for a restaurant location, and then to the movies; 27% of people are hiking or exercise, the remaining 1% will try to do something unexpected. For men, the first date is very important to get on with a mentality of a few men. If you refuse to be invited for the first time that he would have lost confidence, is likely to change women to take a chance. All men are stubborn, the unyielding belief in making a serious mistake. Not every man has the nerve tough, stand up to "destroy" their fear of the same frustration, fear of being mercilessly rejected, vulnerable to protect themselves in the reflection of the conditions.

First date If everything goes smoothly, men may think that the relationship between the two of the next growth can be good. On the other hand, if the first date did not touch a woman, then she would disappear, and heard from. Due to the assumption that habitually do not have a second chance, a man in the first date, tend to show hospitality. Therefore, if the woman accepted the man's sincerity, they should be issued accordingly suggested that if you slow or hesitant numb, unable to communicate to each other, "I think you are good", not for men to create a conducive The conditions, perhaps the relationship between two people in the end there will be no progress. Bluntly speaking, cosseted more and more men, who are too shy and not good at contact with women, men tend to expect this type of woman who can take the initiative.

A catalyst for better relations

Dating to a certain extent, the men will first consider the relationship further. That men are animals, lower body, was even said that the date, they have always considered the timing of kissing. This remark is not too much. 58% of men believe that if we are really out of step, the first date there is close contact and will not reduce my love for her, 21% of people feel better about 3 times, 21% more than 6 times dating. In general, when they have some kind of attempt to close, we will first of all like to know each other's ideas, but also to fight for their own good opinion communicated to the other side.

As a primary condition for close contact with each other is good. Too bold, in public, the woman was a reward or face down in the face of wine may be feeling bad. In this test the mind of women, men are definitely sensitive and scheming old fox. Watching movies, pretending to have no intention to gently touch the woman's hands, or close to the woman's knee